From Relevant: Spiritual Manipulation: How To Spot It And What To Do About It

We shouldn’t have to endure manipulation in the Church. You want to know one of the things I find most disheartening in this world? If I walk into a church service pretty much anywhere in America and ask people to raise their hand if they have been hurt by a church (specifically the leadership of a church), nearly everyone will raise their hand.

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